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Morning Star
04-20-2008, 02:56 PM
about you that you dislike, that other's might find attractive? I asked myself this while clipping my toenails of all things (I know, I know) Anyway I have been with my wife for almost 6 years and when we first got together there was a part of me I didn't want her to see...my feet :bad:

I know that my feet are less than attractive, hell I could hang upside down with them (they are that bad!) but she loves me either way. So what is it about you physically or mentally that you dislike that other's may find appealing?

AlabamaBoy
04-20-2008, 03:11 PM
Hair on my legs.

inked
04-20-2008, 03:33 PM
I am perfect.

pils
04-20-2008, 03:42 PM
Hair on my legs.

Yeah same here, but not just the hair... The fact that I never wear shorts, so my legs are ghost white, and the contrast between my white legs and black leg hair just looks weird... :p

Morning Star
04-20-2008, 03:46 PM
I just got a mental picture :p

Hellblazer
04-20-2008, 10:13 PM
I dislike my hair and how poofy it gets, but my girlfriend seems to love it because she can run her hands through it. At least it's pleasing someone.

Yogurt55
04-20-2008, 10:19 PM
Yeah same here, but not just the hair... The fact that I never wear shorts, so my legs are ghost white, and the contrast between my white legs and black leg hair just looks weird... :p

I can imagine...

shatterstar
04-21-2008, 12:17 AM
my stubble.

on my chin.

of course.

<.<
>.>

imagination
04-21-2008, 12:33 AM
the fact that i have a criminal mind and always think of the perfect crime for every situation and how to get away with it ... then the fact that i feel the need to blurt this out to everyone :p

Ächilles
04-21-2008, 12:56 AM
Nadda. I'm so cool with the Mike Man.

nukem-1
04-21-2008, 02:32 AM
There are a couple about me that occasionally get on people's nerves.

1. I tend to over-analyze things. I'm not sure why that annoys people, as I only do it when necessary.

2. I procrastinate a LOT. In my mind, as long as something is done on time, why does it matter exactly when it's done. People always say, "Why not just get it done so you don't have to deal with it later?" Well, why worry about it now when I can worry, as well as finish whatever it is, later.

Lonely Tylenol
04-21-2008, 03:50 AM
Yeah same here, but not just the hair... The fact that I never wear shorts, so my legs are ghost white, and the contrast between my white legs and black leg hair just looks weird... :p

This, I guess. My legs and arms also just seem unusually hairy, people used to make fun of me because I had a lot of leg hair at a young age. Now I just wear pants all the time because my legs itch and burn when I don't. :unsure:

The same can be said of my arms, my hands and my feet. I look like hobbit. A giant hobbit. Bad analogy.

Let's see. There's also the fact that I weigh less than most women who are in fact usually at least six inches shorter than me (114 lbs as of last weigh-in, and that's five pounds above last month; I'm 6'1). Being pale as sin and being able to count my ribs through my shirt is something I sure as Hell don't find attractive, but since this is about things that some people actually might...

Hm, I'm never satisfied with my facial hair. My attitude about facial hair has always been "just-don't-give-a-damn"ness, and generally I tend to shoot for something between "dude looks like a lady" and "18 going on 30" and call it a day. I've yet to find an acceptable middle ground--usually I just end up getting to the point where people start avoiding me because I look too old and creepy, shave it all off, and am then called "ma'am" the very next day, at which point I resolve never to shave again. It's a vicious cycle. Anyway, I'm sure at some point or other the facial hair (or lack thereof) can be considered attractive. I'm not sure why.

Oh, my eyelashes. I have very full, thick, long eyelashes. Women (usually older women :huh: ) are usually open about their envy regarding my eyelashes. One of many reasons I wear shades.

Another is my eyes. They change color a lot. My state ID says "blu", my learner's permit says "grn" and my driver's license says "hzl". Concurrent years. I've had more outlandish changes. Anyway, I've been told I have beautiful eyes. Not havin' it. In any case, my eyes are very sensitive, and the massive dark rings around my eyes (racoonish actually) go behind the shades with 'em.

I've been told I have a bit of a baby face as well. I don't agree, nor know exactly what a baby face is. Regardless.

Okay, what else is there? Where to start?

I guess I'll just cut it short here... I don't really find anything about me physically attractive. In fact I'm fairly certain I'm incurably ugly. My friend seems to disagree--but she's an aspiring fashion designer and an idealist, and is inclined to as such (especially since she's intent on giving me a ... /shudder ... makeover :p)--but I suppose that's proof that there's some quality about me that is redemptive to others and not to myself.

When it comes to my mental, psychological, emotional and personal aspects... Well, my friends aren't even willing to touch those. Thank the stars I'm such a nice fellow or I'd probably feel, and for that matter be, even more alienated than I already am.

This thread made me very, very sad about myself. Methinks I'ma call my friend tomorrow and see if that makeover offer is on the table.

kingedward
04-21-2008, 05:53 AM
I want pictures LT. Before and after the makeover. :p

Geoffrey
04-21-2008, 06:03 AM
Having to shave every day and I am 18. Pisses the hell out of me. Also I have red hair, gf loves it but meh.

Morning Star
04-21-2008, 07:29 AM
I think about the future too much. When I was 10, I nearly had a nervous breakdown because I was thinking about where I would live, how I would support my family, how I would be paying my morgage on the house, and what the cost of living would be. I am too proud for my own good, have a hard time apologizing for anything regardless of my fault or not, and have man boobs!

There, I said it. I feel so vindicated.




This thread made me very, very sad about myself.

Whether all that is true or not, I'd hang out with you. There is always something there that makes people gravitate towards you.

mushroom_girl
04-21-2008, 08:10 AM
I am perfect.
Nadda. I'm so cool with the Mike Man.
<333

I hate my feet. But then again, I hate ALL feet.

Zander
04-21-2008, 08:48 AM
Hair on my legs.
Absolutely perfectly fits this thread.^

LT, the thing with your eyes is a good thing. I gets that too(other than the different licenses thing, since I lack those).

abhimanu
04-21-2008, 09:21 AM
this is a song title by baby bash ft. kingston

and oh - my hands got messed up scars on my palms from bboy

Antikas Karios
04-21-2008, 10:36 AM
I've been asked if I pluck my eyebrows by Women. This question usually catches me mid-flow in my "Try to look manly and cool" routine around the fairer sex and it's difficult to recover from. I try and pull back a little dignity by saying No. Usually a little too firmly to convince people and I sometimes get that "Yeah right" look, so I make a mental note to carefully plot my terrible vengeance on those who dare to slight my good name before my peers.

Also I've been told my hair smells of hairspray. That goes pretty much the same as the eyebrow thing.

xerent
04-21-2008, 10:48 AM
Also I've been told my hair smells of hairspray. That goes pretty much the same as the eyebrow thing.

Your eyebrows smell like hairspray?

...

You know...

...

Forget it. I don't even want to know.

Antikas Karios
04-21-2008, 10:51 AM
Your eyebrows smell like hairspray?

...

You know...

...

Forget it. I don't even want to know.

Hurhurhur. No. My Hair smells of Hairspray. My eyebrows smell remains unkown to me due to my nose's treacherous refusal to articulate when I want it to.

Lonely Tylenol
04-21-2008, 01:10 PM
Hurhurhur. No. My Hair smells of Hairspray. My eyebrows smell remains unkown to me due to my nose's treacherous refusal to articulate when I want it to.

Fantastic response. :)

Antikas Karios
04-22-2008, 02:06 AM
Fantastic response. :)

Sos ur face.

Morning Star
04-22-2008, 07:02 AM
How'd that makeover go LT?

WaCk-HeAd
04-22-2008, 07:15 AM
<333

I hate my feet. But then again, I hate ALL feet.

Shoes... it's the answer to everything!

shatterstar
04-22-2008, 07:30 AM
hairy neked feeeet ftw.

Zander
04-22-2008, 11:43 AM
Sos ur face.
I honestly think you meant this.
Wow?

Wizzy`
04-22-2008, 11:45 AM
<333

I hate my feet. But then again, I hate ALL feet.

We were made for eachother.
I hate feet too!

IPlayWoW
04-22-2008, 03:31 PM
Hurhurhur. No. My Hair smells of Hairspray. My eyebrows smell remains unkown to me due to my nose's treacherous refusal to articulate when I want it to.

Nice, very nice :rofl:

Oh, and, I hate everything about me... don't worry :)

Lonely Tylenol
04-23-2008, 04:09 AM
How'd that makeover go LT?

I wouldn't know. I spent my entire break helping her with her math problems and then I had to go on the clock for tutoring (history, philosophy, and religion, meaning I could NOT help with math from that point on), so she headed out before I thought to ask. She did bring me back some pizza in time for my next class though. :happy: